1. Couples counseling and/or individual counseling. Sometimes, couples is better and sometimes individual is better. In counseling, I have seen many couples rebound from the edge of divorce, and some come back together after separation. 2. If counseling hasn’t worked for you, or your partner refuses, try reading books about marriage. For introverts and auto-didacts, reading can often prove much more helpful than couples counseling. I encourage you to especially try reading books you think you wo